Summer is here, and there’s nothing quite like the laughter of your family, the splash of cool water, and the sizzle of the barbecue drifting through the air. Over the years as a pool builder, I’ve seen countless families transform their backyards into personal retreats—places where work melts away and every day can feel like a vacation. If you’ve ever dreamed of a haven right outside your door, this is the perfect time to make it happen. Here’s how you can create a relaxing family backyard retreat that will become the backdrop for your best summer memories.
Choose Your Space: Picking the Best Backyard Spot
The first step in creating your summer oasis is choosing the perfect spot. Take a walk around your backyard at different times of day—notice where the sun hits (and where it doesn’t), which areas feel inviting, and where the natural flow of your yard draws you in. Think about how you want to use the space. Is it a spot close to the kitchen for easy snack runs? Or tucked away for privacy and peace?
Keep in mind, even a modest backyard can become a stunning retreat. I’ve built pools and patios that made small spaces feel twice as big, simply by paying attention to how people gather and move. Just remember: the best location is one where the family naturally wants to hang out, laugh, and unwind together.
Design with Comfort: Seating for Lounging and Play
Now for the heart of relaxation—comfort. The right seating makes all the difference, whether you’re drying off after a swim or lounging with a good book while the kids play. Picture plush, weather-resistant sofas under a pergola, or classic Adirondack chairs circling a fire pit. Don’t forget hammocks or outdoor bean bags for a touch of playfulness.
If you’ve got little ones (or even just the young-at-heart), add a mix of seating heights: benches for older guests, soft poufs or mats for kids, and loungers for sunbathing. It’s not just about style—it’s about creating a space where everyone feels welcome and at ease, ready for those impromptu backyard naps or evening storytimes.
Add Shade and Greenery for a Cool Summer Escape
No one wants to spend summer hiding from the heat. That’s why shade is every backyard’s best friend. Think beyond the basic umbrella: add a pergola draped with breezy fabric, or plant fast-growing trees for natural cover. Retractable awnings and sail shades offer flexible protection, making your space inviting all day long.
Of course, a true retreat needs greenery. Whether it’s lush potted plants, fragrant herbs, or a border of tall grasses around your pool, plants cool the air, boost your mood, and bring that “resort” feel home. Imagine stepping out to the scent of lavender, or kicking back beneath the dappled shade of a leafy maple—your own private paradise.
Fun Features: Games and Activities for All Ages
Nothing brings families together like a little friendly competition. Incorporate activities everyone can enjoy—an in-ground pool with a basketball hoop, a corner for cornhole, or space for classic games like bocce or giant Jenga. If you have room, consider a small patch of lawn for tag, or install a net for volleyball or badminton.
The beauty of a backyard retreat is that it grows with your family. I’ve seen toddlers splashing in shallow pool entries, teens practicing their cannonballs, and grandparents joining in shuffleboard tournaments. Set up a storage bench for pool toys and game equipment—so your retreat is always ready for adventure.
Light Up Evenings with Cozy Outdoor Lighting
When the sun sets, the magic doesn’t have to end. Thoughtful outdoor lighting transforms your backyard into a twinkling haven perfect for midnight swims, late-night chats, or quiet moments listening to the crickets. Start with string lights or lanterns for a soft, inviting glow. Add solar-powered path lights around the pool or patio for safety and charm.
For extra ambiance, consider installing dimmable wall sconces or in-pool LED lights that shift in color. Fire pits and torches not only keep bugs away but add that campfire feel that makes everyone want to gather close and share stories.
Enjoy Easy Maintenance for Stress-Free Relaxation
A backyard retreat should be a place of relaxation—not a source of stress. Choose materials and features that stand up to weather and are easy to clean. Composite decking, powder-coated furniture, and self-cleaning pool systems all cut down on chores. Opt for native plants that thrive with little fuss, and set up an automatic irrigation system to keep everything green.
Lean on your pool builder or local experts for advice tailored to your yard. Remember, the right setup means less time working and more time enjoying—with your feet up, the grill going, and your loved ones around you.
Your perfect summer isn’t a distant dream—it’s waiting right outside your back door. With a little planning, the right touches, and a dash of imagination, your backyard can become the setting for countless family barbecues, cannonball contests, and starlit evenings. Take it from someone who’s seen it all: your home deserves to be your favorite place on earth. This summer, make the leap and create the backyard retreat your family will cherish for years to come.